Married to a Sex Addict: The Enabler Trap
During my husband's last major relapse, I let him persuade me to indulge many unhealthy sexual fantasies related to his addiction, and in the process I involved myself in things that today I am deeply...
View ArticleMarried to a Sex Addict: Relapse
My husband is in the midst of what appears to be a major relapse of his sexual addiction, which appears to have been going on for several months. In fact, it now appears that he was clean only...
View ArticleMarried to a Sex Addict: Watching the Spiral
I mentioned in a recent post that my husband and I are presently enduring a relapse of his sex addiction. It seems to have been going on for several months now, and I am struggling to remember that I...
View ArticleMarried to a Sex Addict: Confrontation, Denial, and Deflection
A couple of weeks ago, I began a series of posts about my husband's recently-discovered backsliding and the insights I hoped to glean from sharing my experience, my feelings, and my observations here....
View ArticleWhat is Co-Dependency?
My husband and I try to maintain a healthy sense of humor about even the most difficult things in life, including his porn and cybersex addiction and the strain it places on our marriage. Over the...
View ArticleWhat works for me – 4th year of sobriety – by Coach Adrian
Hi guys, Since I’m nearing my 4th Anniversary of sobriety from porn, I would like to share my insights about things that worked for me during that time! This is what works for me in a nutshell: Never...
View ArticleIs Your Theology Keeping You an Addict??
Sex is a powerful gift. The Christian community calls it a gift from God. But Christians need to challenge contradictory belief systems in this area. If you receive a gift, what do you do with it? You...
View ArticleA Slip Up in Recovery – My View
I am a member of Daily Strength online forum that helps people with various health issues, and I love this site. One of the most active members on my Sex and Pornography Addiction support groups has...
View ArticleThe Other Side of Addiction: A Wife’s Story
My name is Kay. I am the wife of a recovering sex addict. Much of the advice I write in my posts here comes from experience gained the hard (and often painful) way. There are things I wish I had...
View ArticleHow To Turn Failure Into Opportunity
That is one of the tricks of opportunity. It has a sly habit of slipping in by the back door, and often it comes disguised in the form of misfortune, or temporary defeat. Perhaps this is why so many...
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